Many people have been in a relationship that have not even lasted for three months. Others have been in a relationship that lasted for six, seven or eight years but the sad aspect of it is that when they want to get married, you will see that the bond between them weakens and that is the end of that relationship.
It also happens in a marriage where you see newly wedded couple saying that they are tired of their marriage. This is when their relationship has been weakened.
Nevertheless, some girls have asked me as a relationship adviser on how to strengthen their relationship with their boyfriend, and that is why I have decided to share it with the general public.
To strengthen your relationship with your partner be it your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, or husband is not a big deal but requires practice. The best thing with what I am going to share with you is that when you do that, you are invariably showing the person that you love him or her.
1. Call him/her sweet names: Many is yet to understand the importance of calling your partner names like, sweetheart, my love, my heart, darling, honey, babe, etc. It makes the person feels special and makes you also romantic. Calling the person by his/her name shows that the person is no different from any other person you see out there.
2. Do not stay afar from each other: Some persons have asked me if distance relationship is possible and I said yes most especially now we are in a digital and computer world when you call the person hundred times a day or do video calls with the person. But as I will tell them, it is better to stay closer to each other. This is more powerful than staying afar where you talk on phone. Stay with your love, feel each other and share your burdens together.
3. Always ask the person how he/she is doing: Some will be in a relationship but will not care to know what is going on with their partner. When you ask the person how he is doing, he will be able to express himself and will feel that you really care for him.
4. Try to know when he is broke: There is nothing that pains a man than when he is broke and you are asking him for money. When he is broke, try to manage and not expect him to be spending on you as he normally does. Be the one to tell him, " no I will not buy this now because I know we don't have enough money now" this will tell more to him about you. You can somethings also help by giving him the little you have.
5. Know when he is in bad mood: Understanding your partner's mood is very important because it will help you know how to follow him. If he is in happy mood know that this is the best time to ask him for anything but if he is in sad mood, don't try to ask him anything. Just make your words limited when he is sad and device a means to make him happy.
These few things will help you strengthen your relationship with your husband or boyfriend.
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