WHAT IS WRONG WITH VERY BEAUTIFUL GIRLS?

 ©️ Abonyi Hyginus Ebuka

Often times we see nature, objects and even people and exclaim, wow...,  this is beautiful or she is beautiful. The question of what is beautiful over the time has become a Philosophical question and a problem: is beauty objective or subjective? Whether beauty is objective or subjective is not our concern, what we know is that people will see something and majority will say, it is beautiful or ugly.

It is no doubt that amidst human beings there are people who are said to be more beautiful while others are said to be just beautiful or ugly, although beauty is said to lie in the eyes of the beholder. By not trying to examine what it takes to say one is beautiful or what constitute what is beautiful, the focus here becomes what is wrong with (very) beautiful girls.

The mixed feelings between those who are beautiful and those who are ugly is unavoidable because those who are beautiful sometimes think those who are ugly are in a better position than them whereas those who are ugly think those who are beautiful are better than them. So, which way?

The problem with girls who are very beautiful.

Being beautiful is a good thing because according to Thomas Aquinas, good thing pleases and beautiful things attract attention. When you are beautiful, you will attract people to yourself whether you want it or not. Men will like to come closer to you just to see your beautiful face, everyone will like to hangout with you and you will get a lot of compliments. To be beautiful as a girl, many positive things will come your way. Yet, all these that come the way of very beautiful girls, could you imagine some of them are unhappy?

First, pride over shadows some of them that they carry themselves as the queen of Sheba. To greet people is war for them because they see them as less humans or demi-demons: Some of them do not have the spirit of humility. Hence, the beautiful girls become selective of class to mingle which land many of them into higher disadvantage of having small or no friend.

The very beautiful girl according to a research made by Irvin Wolkoff, a psychiatrist based in Toronto, with "facie ad facie" encounter causes harm to a man's heart and rises the stress hormones of the man. When a beautiful girl enters the midst of men, attention will be on her while majority of them will try to impress her or make her notice them, for they think the opportunity to date or sex her is possible. Her presence causes their cortisol levels to be high and strokes become real possibility according to Irvin.

The beautiful girls sometimes think that anyone who comes around them is there to sing praises of their compelling attractive face and body but they get it wrong because some who come might just be there for an important discussion totally different view from their beauty.

Often times, they feel bored because when people who they think are not worthy of there presence are around them, they will be bored of their discussion. Even when people who they think are worthy of there presence are around them, they (beautiful girls), are stripped of character by which they do not talk rather those around them do the talking just to make them smile to see there beautiful smiles.

The beautiful girls sometimes become very lazy that they cannot do anything for themselves just as what is commonly believed that some wealthy children do not know how to do personal chores or to do anything related to domestic work. Why are they lazy? People are always there for them and prefer doing things for them just to remain closer to them and from this, the very beautiful girl becomes just a human being with brain that is empty. According to Prof Amaku, such people with such character become "Nwa Mummy" (mummy's pet). When people are not there for them, they become useless because they cannot help themselves by themselves.

According to statistics, the very beautiful girls are seldom single longer. This is because men who want to come closer to them are afraid on whether they will accept them or not. From another angle, the very beautiful girls reject men because they think every man who wants them in a relationship just want their bodies that is beautiful and immediately they get what they want, they will leave them. Also, some men are afraid to marry a very beautiful girl because they think they will not respect them or they will be having an external affairs. Some men who are ready to approach the beautiful girls are not sure if they are single while they are single. This conception stems up from the fact that she is beautiful, she cannot be single.

The very beautiful sometimes are jealous human beings. When you come across them and they expect you will give a compliment and you didn't, the worst, if you give the compliment to the ones they think is ugly, boom...jealousy has started.

Not only that they are jealous creatures many times, but some of them are sadist especially when they see the so called ugly ones noticed, being married, having boyfriends, etc. Their sadness might be that many who have come their ways take advantage of them and leave.

The very beautiful girl thinks that to just be beautiful is the final thing in this world and so, gives less value to many things and places highest value in maintaining her beauty. Such a person does not want anything that will jeopardize her beauty. If such a person were living a classical life before, and the world makes a U-turn, life becomes hell fire for her because she can not bend. From here, such a person goes into prostitution to be classical again. Fine, prostitution will pay but what does it profit a lady that is beautiful if she nourishes her beautiful body and her soul is lost forever? Vanity upon vanity, all is vanity!

Have you heard of the story of Jezebel in the bible, how wicked and cruel she was? This is true of some pretty girls: They are daughters of Jezebel. Wickedness is their confirmation names and they have the hearts of stone.

Some beautiful girls fall into depression when they notice aging is calling with the archangel Michael's trumpet and wrinkles will be singing hosanna on their faces. They become depressed simple because they will not be noticed again. Again, age might not call but a little accident might make a disfigure😁😁😁 and when the shape becomes shapeless,........just imagine what will happen?

Finally, we are not saying that the very beautiful girls are bad people, we just pinpointed some characteristics the are odd among the beautiful girls. Some beautiful girls are good, with human sympathy, caring nature, etc. This post should help to reconfigure some of the mentalities of beautiful girls who are in the odd path. To be beautiful is really sweet I must confess, says Loveth Ezeja.

The beautiful pictures of beautiful ladies used for this post does not mean this post is in anyway reflecting them, they are my friends and I can tell you they are beautiful souls.