HER MARRIAGE ENDED WITHIN ONE YEAR (Part two)

 ©️ Abonyi Hyginus Ebuka

The young man was very happy that he has seen a young lady who is very beautiful and chocolate, with every natural endowments being intact: all the physical features that men are looking in a woman in terms of bodly decorations are normal. This lady is good, that if she passes, only the perfume of her body will make you look for nearby church to wed her. 

Hence, the guy immediate falls in love and approached the lady and asked, "Hi dear, you are very beautiful, please, what is your name"? This is the beginning of their discussion of boy and girl talk, you know what I mean ... Before we could notice it, they go out for their first date, had their first kiss and boom...they exchanged love pleasantries. Both thought they are in love. 

The guy being lured by the beauty of the girl was scared that other guys will take her away from him, now, makes effort to see that the girl is his forever. As an African; very sharp in thinking, wise in making decision that will make him gets what he wants, came up with the decision to impregnate her. 

But the girl was very smart or should we say she knows God, did not want to be pregnant before her marriage, prompted that they should get married first. The guy immediately jumped in Joy because what he was looking on high is now closer to his feet. He immediately proposed to her and she agreed; they scheduled a date for their wedding and that day came and they are married. 

They begin to live a lovely, sweet honey mood. Two months after the marriage, problem came and they sorted for divorce...😭😭 Why is it so, what has gone wrong, people began to rumour. All effort to resolve their issue was futile. 

They guy now discovers that the girl is dirty inside as she does not know how to cook or does she knows house chores. The girl now tells the guy that she married him out of pity and not that she loved him. The name sweety, honey, darling, my joy, my heart, babe, etc, went asylum and guess the name that came up...; This wicked woman, the devil incarnate, Jezebel, etc. 

Should we look for the reason why their marriage ended this soon? I know you might guess well but for clearity sake, let us see.

Appearance decieves and for this what w1e see often is almost mirage. Marriage is not about appearance but LOVE. when anything less than love is the basis for marriage, it is like a foundation layed on a sand. Love is the rock of marriage: beauty is like appearance and it depreciates. Marry for genuine love not lust or anything else. 

For Izuegbulam Chigbo, It is a mistake for a woman to look down on a young man because he is poor and she is beautiful. The young man has potential. You have beauty. Your beauty is a diminishing asset. His potential is an appreciating asset. Who should look down on who?

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WHAT DO YOU THINK FROM THE story led to the sudden end of their marriage?